Whenever I write, there is a heart connection. You can depend on it. On Valentine’s Day I feel that there are moments in time that connections are very strong all over this country. Many at the same time. I know that it creates something bigger. Something good.
When you read my writing you’ll recognise that I pat my heart, and point to you. It connects us on the heart level. The other day I was explaining how I train people on a reservation system. I pointed out that I always knew when they were going to break through or not on the patterning you have to know to move through the different windows and information fills. The emotional response might feel intrusive since I’m not just speaking to the mind of my trainee, I’m speaking to the emotions. I’ve asked them to re-pattern and I have to point out the trips and fails along the way. I take this very seriously and approach it with a heart connection. Otherwise they can become defensive and not gain the confidence to make the change necessary so they can move with ease on a very detailed system. I know they’re going to make it when we can laugh about the repatterning. The defenses drop and the new creative space is filled with room to grow.
You can say the words or make the motions, but until you connect to them on an emotional level, change will be in a holding pattern. Celebrate love and connections!
(pats heart, and points to you)